Having a consistent phone friend that you can speak with about anything and truly feel at ease with is wonderful. Keeping a phone friend around and happy is easy so long as you do a few things to let him remember how you appreciate and enjoy conversing and having phone sex with him.
There are several things you can do to let him know you’re thinking about him. One way you can let him know he’s on your mind in between your phone dates is to send simple text messages. You can also send sexts, and pictures messages. All these things will allow him to keep in mind that you can’t wait for your next phone date.
Another thing you can do to show that you’re interested and keep him happy is to use active listening when he’s speaking with you over the phone. Active listening means really hearing what another person says to you and not just waiting for your turn to speak. You can show him that you hear what he says to you by bringing it up later in the conversation or during another phone date. Should you have a bad memory like me, one tip is to write down important things that your phone friend says. By doing this you can read it over and use it for later.
You can also show your interest by telling him things about your life and being vulnerable and open. The more you share, the more comfortable he will likely become sharing with you. So go ahead and be daring by sharing your interests are sexually and be open and non-judgmental when it comes to your phone friend’s desires. You can always try something new that your phone friend likes and then if you decide you don’t enjoy it, you don’t have to do it again. By trying it out, you show your phone man that you’re open to doing things that excite him.